Thursday, July 17, 2008

Dealing with the not so nice people of the world...

Several months ago I went to work where I promptly heard that the night charge nurse called me T & A...( I hear that that means titties and ass) how dare her say such a thing about me behind my back, but not to my face...By the way they all call her the Beast behind her back... but I only said you have nice titties too...sheesh..
Now while I find this mostly a compliment...I happened to go to a Christian college and I have a BSN and I feel like my job is a unprofessional professional job...
What is a girl to do...If I know too much and I have big boobs apparently the some nurses are offended...
How can that be?
My main concern are the patients that I take care of and trying to facilitate a team environment... and where has that got me...just down to the T & A????
You see there are a shortage of nurses not because nursing is hard but because nurses that really care about their patients and tend to be there advocate are made examples of...harsh words to be said about a nurse that really cares and that also might work out on a regular basis and might not smoke due to her very duty of living life as they preach...
While I might not be upset of my best girlfriends use my boobs as party favors I would like it if my professional life didn't include a description of my boobs...they are big they can't be hidden I have even bought scrubs that are like 2 times bigger for me so that my boobs don't take over the show...
Women why do you have to be so mean...I'm such a loving person...I know that my blog friend women are nothing like the women that I work with but I am rethinking my job as a nurse....how can this be????

8 comments:

GoteeMan said...

It isn't you... it's the ugly green-eyed monster, and jealousy is her name. When intimidated, that's what some insecure women feel the need to do - degrade others, or attempt to, to try to make themselves appear like they are confident and strong (which is really opposite the truth)...

words only have power to the extent that you give them value... so you might view it kinda like those words are just annoying little gnats - they can't really hurt you, and are best just swatted away. Often I find that responding in the OPPOSITE spirit can have incredible impact... and it's a very freeing thing when we can love those who are unloving and unlovely toward us...

I believe the comments reveal nothing about you, but rather about the person speaking them...

J/

Walker said...

I would think bib boobs would be an asset. most of the men would come back to life the second they saw you lol

People are what they are.
Some are jeolous of what they wish they had and can't.
Others look for a reason why people like you.
She probably sees that you get along with everyone and the only way she could explain it is by saying that its because your flaughting your assets.

But you know when you think about it, so what if you are.
We are born with many tools to use.
The only thing we choose is how to use them,
You're being professional about your work and that's all that matters.

I think you should get a t-shirt that says "I just got a breast reduction" and wear that to work HA HA HA

*~*Cece*~* said...

You're a pretty girl & it sounds like she's jealous. Um, what woman just speaks, in regular conversation, of another woman's T&A? I'm guessing whatever she was saying about you wasn't nice to begign with!

Don't sweat it girl. Next time you see her, hold your chin high, raise the girls to their full potential & flip her off. How's that for being professional!

Superstar said...

First off, I wish you were one of the many fab nurses that took care of me whilst I was in the hospital!!
Second, she is OBVIOUSLY feeling inadaquet in her own professional abilities, so she has to find something about you to critizie. This is because, you are better than she at your job. She is only trying to point out flaws that MIGHT keep her on the top of the management pile.
I equate this to craps in a pot. THey will climb over each other, pushing the other down, just to get out...
I would file a complaint w/ HR...she is afterall creating a hostile work enviornment and SEXUALLY innappropriate comments....*shrugs*
Then again, Im a bi*ch like that!

That girl said...

Maybe next time bump into one of these bitches with your big titties and maybe they'll think twice about it next time...after a concussion or two ;-)

Chin up. Women are catty, you know that. Hold your head high and be who you are.

Missed reading you by the way...

Just telling it like it is said...

Thank you BBF's out there in blog land what would I do without you all!!!
You guys sure did make me feel better!!! Your all right I can't let them have my power!!!

Beth said...

women can be such bitches! and you know the Beast is just jealous cuz HER boobs aren't fantastic like yours are! JELLY FACE!! I always said you have the best boobs in blogland, and it's true!!

xoxox

Just telling it like it is said...

Awe thanks beth...you sure do know how to make a girl feel better!!